The Truth About Finding Your True Love And How You Can Fulfill Your Dream Of Living Happily Ever Aft
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'All we need is love.' Myth or not? Since love does seem to be able to overcome anything and everything, at least on television and at the movies, this seems like a reality. However, truth is, making relationships work takes skill and hard work, regardless of the 'love' factor. This is a myth here. Let's take a peak at some of the more common concepts above
'love' relationships and see if they are myths or based upon reality.
If you are thinking of going into a relationship, or if you find yourself falling in love, and ready to date, keep this in mind: relationship is way, way beyond just love and attraction.
Just like in fairy tales, once true love is found, people live happily ever after. Truth or myth? Granted couples can look into each other's eyes and have those warm fuzzy feelings. However, truth is, all couples will have their ups and downs. 'Happily ever after' seems to imply a perfect, problem-less relationship when in reality, those don't exist.
If you are in a problem-less relationship (which doesn't exist anyway), you'll get bored one day. And one of the couples will want to run away!
So, is it possible to create and maintain a long lasting and blissful relationship, or can one even dream of creating the relationship of his or her dreams?
The first step is to arm yourself with the genuine knowledge and instructions on how to create your soul-based relationship. Trust me, it is worth your time and money if you can ever find a comprehensive course of instructions and learn more about the truth of relationship, and especially how you can draw in your soul mate!
It has to be 'love at first sight' in order to work long-term. Myth or truth? While this can be true for some, it certainly doesn't have to be for all couples in long-term relationships. Many people grow together over time.
Since practically anyone can learn the nuts and bolts of relationship building, focusing on some basic techniques that can be learned is a must. The main ones, in no particular order, are:
- Understand your-self.
Understand yourself. What is your personality. You may be surprised. Some people live for a long time and never come to understand or even realize why they are the way they are! And why is this important? It determines how you look at the world, how you will interpret the events occurring in your life, and WHO YOU ARE will help your partner determine how to react to YOU!
- Rapport: Develop rapport with others well. Now let's take a quick peak at the basics of developing rapport with others. In a nutshell, what it takes is to ask questions, have a positive, open attitude, encour age an open exchange of communications (both verbal and unspoken), listen to verbal and unspoken communications and share positive feedback.
- Conflict Resolution: Resolve negative issues and conflicts without too much friction How do you handle conflicts? If you can put your ego aside pretty much and try to keep friction to a minimum, your relationships should move along fairly smoothly. Where you feel disagreement, if you can 'agree' to disagree on certain things with the other party involved, that will help, too. In short, conflict resolution means to pretty much deal with others as you would want them to deal with you.
Once true love is found, people live happily ever after. Truth or myth? Well, it will definitely not be a perfect, problem-less journey. However, you definitely can live happily ever after with the love of your life, if only you will arm yourself with the right relationship skills and learn relationship mastery whole heartedly.
Trust me, this is within your power. It is your destiny to draw in your highest and best mate, if you have decided to.